KITTEN TALK 26: WHY YOU NEED A SEX COACH NOW
Today's post is about why you need a Sex Coach, right now instead of later.
What inspired me to do this post was I recently did a post on Instagram (will link below) where I explained WHAT a Sex Coach is.
But I wanted to get more into why hiring one can be super beneficial and a little bit of background of why I decided to become one.
As a Sex Coach my job is to give you a solutions- oriented approach to healing your sexuality issues. I focus on women's sexuality, because I feel, as a woman, our sexuality has been oppressed by society for so long. Maybe you're someone who struggles communicating to your partner(s) about your sexual needs, or you ben faking orgasms because you don't really know what you like in bed or you're afraid to explore your kinks because you feel you will be judged.
I am someone who has and is done the work of embracing her sexuality, and I know for sure it's been quite the journey to heal and move through troubling experiences in life. I love to give insight and advice on being authentic to yourself- regardless of whatever the fuck others may think.
I take my pleasure and who I am seriously. I don't play about my worth and you shouldn't either about yourself. It's okay to be interested in sex, to want sex, to have pleasurable experiences. Our sexuality- believe it or not, is spiritual. Sexual energy is creative energy. Pleasure is our birth right and if you don't understand or believe that now- working with me you soon will learn that's the truth.
Being a Sex Coach makes so much sense to me now. If you followed me before, I've rebranded and used to sell cosmetics. Though that was great, and people loved it- after a while I felt it wasn't what I wanted to do anymore. Though I stopped that, I didn't want to deviate from sexuality.
In some sense, it was just meant to be. Growing up and learning more about sexuality I read and did research (actual research not just Pornhub but yeah that count too lol) In college, I joined a sexual health club where we discussed different topics each week and went around campus educating and giving out condoms.
I used to feel guilty for being a sexually confident woman. I used to feel I was weird, or deviant and no man will want me because women who are into sex are whores seeking attention and deserve bad things to happen to them and yada yada whatever bullshit we're told.
Once I had enough and started to do the work of accepting who I am and that sexuality is one of the things I am healing and want to teach others the same- it became easier and easier to not give a fuck and pay no mind to those who take the time to criticize. It was time I finally speak up without shame because I know there's another woman out here who's dealing with or been through what I been through and is ready for something different. And seeing me do that shit encourages her to take no shit and love who she is.
If you're into astrology, I have a 12H stellium. If you don't know - that's the house of the unconscious, dreams, fantasies, the shadow self, addiction, past lives, isolation, transcendence, spirituality etc. People may think this is a " bad" thing to have, but I think those of us who have it are quite special - if you fully embrace it you can learn so much about yourself. There's a balance to things and of course if you let the negatives define you- that is what you get.
I fully believe in the process of healing myself, I have helped others do the same. I am willing to dive deep into the psyche and speak about topics other people may raise their eyebrows at or want to avoid all together - sexuality being one of those.
Utilizing a sex coach can help you work through difficulties in not just relationships but yourself. You yourself is one of the most important relationships in your life. Why continue depriving yourself of pleasure? Of happiness? Suffering is not an achievement.
That is why I created " KITTEN SZN: RELEASE SHAME" course as a tool for you to start digging deep into the shame that continues to live with you that you are now ready to release. It is beginner friendly- with lots of journaling questions in order to help you really think and actually write down to see what is going through your subconscious or realize things you didn't think had an impact on you.
It is available now. You will also be able to be part of a community of like minded women who are ready to call in the life of pleasure they deserve- no reason to wait.
Thank you, Kittens, for reading! I see and appreciate all of you.
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